My gift to Me

I want to get a ring with Leilani's birthstone. The only problem is her birthstone in Peridot which is normally set in yellow gold and not white gold. I don't wear yellow gold. So I am having a hard time finding a ring I like at any stores in the area. So now I've resorted to shopping online for one, but I'm having a hard time deciding which ring to get since I can't see what they actually look like on my finger. But I've narrowed it down to two stand out rings. I can't decide between them... I want Mike to have an equal voice in the selection of the ring, but I want it to be something that reflects who I am too...